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Mindset Makeover Alert: See Life Through a Whole New Lens

Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a storm of negative thoughts? Or perhaps you’ve had moments when life seems endlessly frustrating, like being stuck in traffic. We’ve all been there.

In my recent talk for our Sunday Meditation group on Zoom, I emphasized the importance of understanding that well-being is a skill and that our minds possess incredible power and malleability. We can cultivate a growth mindset, allowing us to navigate the storm of negative thoughts and transform them into positive ones.

First things first: think of well-being as a skill, and sometimes, tough times are just a temporary part of our journey through life. Imagine if we had a user manual for our minds from the day we were born. That would be quite an advantage, right? But we weren’t given one, so this is where mindfulness comes in.

Mindfulness is about training your mind to stay focused, thinking about your thoughts (psychologists call it “meta-cognition”), and being aware of the kinds of thoughts that create our feelings. It’s like having a superpower that lets you take control of your own mind!

Let’s meet Sarah. She’s stuck in never-ending traffic on her way to a job she really doesn’t like. For a while, she kept telling herself the same story – “My life sucks.” But because of her mindfulness practice, Sarah decided to change the script and alter the narrative.

Instead of dwelling on her lousy job and the traffic, Sarah started to imagine negative situations and events she wasn’t experiencing. She thought about someone getting a cancer diagnosis and tried to imagine how that person must feel. Suddenly, her own situation didn’t seem so awful. In fact, she realized she’d prefer being stuck in traffic over facing such a diagnosis.

With her mindfulness practice, Sarah was able to shift her mindset from negative to positive. She began to feel thankful and appreciative of her life. It was like she put on a whole new pair of glasses to see her life through.

As the saying goes, “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” Sarah’s transformation is a perfect example of how changing your perspective can completely transform your world.

Here are three valuable tips to help you turn negative thoughts into positive growth mindsets:

Gratitude Journal: Take a few minutes each day to write down three things you’re grateful for. These could be simple things like a tasty meal or a friendly smile. Gratitude has the incredible power to turn sadness into happiness.

Find the Silver Lining: When life gives you lemons, look for the positive side. For instance, if you spill your favorite drink, focus on the fact that you have more at home. By changing your perspective, you can find something good in every situation.

Positive Pep Talks: Create a list of encouraging phrases like “I’m brave,” “I’m unstoppable,” or “I’m incredibly thankful.” Say them to yourself every day to train your mind to focus on the good things. I’ve created a whole affirmation music album called “Soul Affirmation” dedicated to positive pep talks. Click here to get your copy.

In the words of Dr. Seuss, “Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.” Mindfulness helps us cherish those moments and transform our challenges into the sweetest lemonade life can offer.

Mindfulness equips us to make those changes in our perspective and transform our mindset.

Remember, well-being is a skill we can develop, and although suffering is sometimes necessary, it doesn’t have to stay with us forever on our journey. You have the power to change your outlook and lead a happier, more fulfilling life.

With a touch of mindfulness and a sprinkle of gratitude, you can turn your world from drab to delightful.

So, put on your gratitude glasses and watch your life transform into a canvas of happiness.